Group Dynamics

10

Sometimes individuals don’t fit the mold. It’s not their fault…maybe they are just different. Maybe they see the world differently, maybe they have a different philosophy on life, maybe their idea of beauty isn’t what everyone else’s is. Life would be pretty dull if we all shared exactly the same ideals and opinions.

The saying “Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder” first appeared in the 3rd century BC in Greek. It didn’t appear in its current form in print until the 19th century, but in the meantime there were various written forms that expressed much the same thought. In 1588, the English dramatist John Lyly, in his Euphues and his England, wrote:

“…as neere is Fancie to Beautie, as the pricke to the Rose, as the stalke to the rynde, as the earth to the roote.”

Shakespeare expressed a similar sentiment in Love’s Labours Lost, 1588:

“Good Lord Boyet, my beauty, though but mean,
Needs not the painted flourish of your praise:
Beauty is bought by judgement of the eye,
Not utter’d by base sale of chapmen’s tongues”

Benjamin Franklin, in Poor Richard’s Almanack, 1741, wrote:

“Beauty, like supreme dominion, is but supported by opinion”

David Hume’s Essays, Moral and Political, 1742, include:

“Beauty in things exists merely in the mind which contemplates them.”

The person who is widely credited with coining the saying in its current form is Margaret Wolfe Hungerford (née Hamilton), who wrote many books, often under the pseudonym of ‘The Duchess’. In Molly Bawn, 1878, there’s the line “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”, which is the earliest citation of it that I can find in print.

From: The Phrase Finder